Men are visual they say. Well, I am. Not looking for a Halle Berry but hell, I want to be able to put my arms around you. And if at 6ft 5inches, I am not able to achieve that feat, woman, get off your butt and get to the gym. Walk around! Do something.
Okay, I said it. Why do our Nigerian women feel its okay after pregnancy to just let go. 5ft5, 220 pounds. Give me a break. Its not healthy, it’s not sexy! We, us, men are already battling with the F word(not the curse word) the other F(faithful)and the last thing we need is a wife at home that makes your mind even wonder anymore that it already is because she is not holding up to her side of the bargain.
This is not exclusive to just Nigerian women (fairness, fairness). But it seems to be especially unchecked amongst them. I have never seen a hot fat person and as far as I am concerned, that phrase right there should be motivation enough for anyone.
I do have a few words for my Nigerian dudes too. Walking around looking like Bruce Bruce, but this is not about us. I will get to that in another blog, but can we deal with this first??
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I'm of the opinion that for those women who let themselves go, they've fulfilled their obligations of getting married (to keep parents and society off their backs) and having children (see above). They've done what they have to do so now they can relax. They may or may not be in love with the person they married, so they don't really need to look good anymore. There's probably more to it, but that's all I could come up with for right now.
ReplyDeletelol...are u saying u are only attracted to your wife's weight not her as whole? cos when it boils down to it..looks go away sooner or later...and what shines thru is the person inside that body...not saying i am an advocate of a woman letting go after having kids..but every woman's body is different..as long as she is trying her best remain healthy thats good.. but to compare a woman letting go of her physical self and a man's level of faithful doesn't make that much sense to me..those are two different..anyman that cheats on his wife bcos she let her self go after having kids is looking for an excuse to cheat..unless she is neglecting other duties in the bedroom..then i can say..."eh ya!"....
ReplyDeleteps: no i am not married nor do i have kids...but i can only imagine.
I agree with yankeenaija but at the same time. You married a person not a shape or size. Love the person within. Do you mean a woman can be unfaithful if she keeps her size 8 and her husband has a 6month pregnancy tummy?
ReplyDeleteAs much as looks are great, they are only just an extra...Some women have tried and haven't succeeded and if she was married for just her looks, well Im glad thats being confessed. If not, Im hoping you're a six-packed, thick framed, tall, handsome man with no extra bulges.
ReplyDeletelol, FASCHE I agree with you completely...
ReplyDeleteOf course, women should NOT let go after marriage, but several things lead to adding weight...child bearing for instance...and some women really do try, they just can't seem to shed the weight...in such cases, I don't think the husbands should love them any less...
Marriage is about more than looks...much more than looks bro...and there's no direct correlation between weight and faithfulness, so a woman's increase in size should never be used as an excuse to cheat, by her husband...
If you TRULY love and respect her, you'ld be faithful to her...that's the way I see it...cheers
Heheheeee, I'm baggin up over here. I'm also mad at you for not updating. Please update. I know life is busy but just commit 15-20mins a day and blog. You would be a great voice for husbands. You started this blog, now finish it!!!!!!!!!!
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